What really matters?

So lately I have been thinking a lot about what really matters in life. In my life there tends to be some drama. I HATE drama but nevertheless it tends to always be right around the cornor. Lately I have just been plain old sick of it. When its come around lately I have been up set and mad but then I basically just said "who cares" "What really matters here". I go to work everyday with the most adorable two year olds. They are what matter....they are the most precious things in my life. At two years old they are learning SO much and are still so innocent. They love and trust you almost immediatly, which is something I am trying to learn from them. They make my whole day turn around. All it takes is one hug or one "Miss Tara!" to turn my whole day around. I love to hear the little boy giggle when he sees me come in. I LOVE my job and can basically talk about my kids all day.

Then I also have lately looked at my friendships. I have lost a few close friends since high school. And now again I say "so what?" I have new friends and may I say better! Most of all my sister has become my best friend. This friend I will not lose. We are an enternal family and so I will be with her for eternity. (hopefully we each have our own husbands and kids hehe). There is just so much drama in this world that if we took a step back and asked "so what?" or "what really matters in this life" could be solved with much less contentions. For me asking these two questions has saved my friendship with a couple of people.